Most people don’t think of legacy when thinking about their marriage. Most couples live their lives thinking, working and trying to make sure they are fulfilled in their marriages without considering the outcome of their intentions. Most of us do not consider our actions in light of how it affects other people around us–especially our children. Children, as … Continue reading
10 Years of Wedded Bliss – And the Five Lessons I Learned that Can Help Yours
Today marks our ten year wedding anniversary. Looking back on our wedding day, I have to really praise God! We didn’t have money, but our wedding was exceptional! We had our ceremony at Alice Austen House, right by the beach overlooking Manhattan to the left and the Verrazano Bridge to the right. We had white … Continue reading
Simple Marriage
Originally posted on Speak Of Marriage:
Marriage, though challenging, shouldn’t be that hard. The problem is that most people have a convoluted view of marriage. There is so much junk that has been circulated about being married, that most single people believe it and then bring it right into their marriage without question. Some newlyweds…
The Give And Take Myth
“In a good relationship you have to give when you may not always want to. You should also expect to be able to take as much as you give. It’s not a one way street.” That quote was one of the answers at answers.yahoo.com for the question: “What is your definition of give and take in a … Continue reading
The 50-50 Trap
The 50-50 proposition is a trap of epic proportions! The idea may sound good, but there’s nothing about it that makes any sense in any healthy relationship. Many single, good-minded people have the most skewed notions about marriage. When I was single, being around other single people gave me some not-so-good ideas about marriage (thank … Continue reading
My Charge To Rowland and Angela
This weekend I was privileged to not only be witness to but officiate the incredible, memorable and incomparable wedding of my childhood friend, Rowland, to his beautiful bride, Angela! The four day wedding celebration was a study in family, friendship, commitment and love. Jennifer and I, along with everyone in attendance, were exceptionally treated to … Continue reading